开学季丨四个关键词助力家庭教育“心”玩法 Four Key Words Help Family Education

      寒冬已去！虎年开局，四个关键词助攻亲子教育虎虎生威。

      The cold winter is gone! At the beginning of the year of the tiger, four key words assist parent-child education.

关键词1健康  Health

      “身心健康，必占C位”！斯宾塞曾说：“良好的健康状况和由之来的愉快的情绪，是幸福的最好资金。”新的一年里，愿您和孩子合理饮食，规律作息，勤加锻炼，拥有健康的身体；内心充盈，情绪平和，元气满满，拥有舒展的心灵。

        In the new year, I wish you and your children a reasonable diet, regular work and rest, frequent exercise and a healthy body; The heart is full, the mood is peaceful, the vitality is full, and has a relaxed heart.

关键词2 陪伴  Accompany

      父母的陪伴是孩子最大最满意的财富，良好的陪伴不仅有利于亲子关系，也能增加孩子的自主与自信。孩子的成长是不可逆的，陪伴是一件紧迫的事儿！祝愿家长新年给孩子更多高质量的走心陪伴。

      Parents' company is the greatest and most satisfactory wealth for children. Good company is not only conducive to parent-child relationship, but also can increase children's autonomy and self-confidence.

关键词3 成长  Grow up

      父母不断成长，才能与孩子一起践行成长型思维。允许孩子犯错，帮助孩子形成“有错就改”的积极思维方式。引导孩子在意成长而不止胜负，不断提高自己的学习能力，时刻保持一颗不惧挫折的上进之心。

      Only when parents grow up can they practice growth thinking with their children.Guide children to care about growth rather than victory and defeat, constantly improve their learning ability, and always maintain a self-motivated heart that is not afraid of setbacks.

关键词4 氛围  Atmosphere

      孩子厌学，孩子逃学，孩子漠视生命，貌似是孩子的事儿，但实质上，是家长从小对孩子心理素质培养不到位的结果。家长们要记住，夫妻和睦，家庭幸福，孩子就不会想不开。

      It seems that children are tired of school, play truant and ignore life, but in essence, it is the result of parents' inadequate cultivation of children's psychological quality since childhood. Parents should remember that if husband and wife are harmonious and the family is happy, children will not be unhappy.

      按照心理学主流行为学派的做法，幸福不幸福，不要天天思考，而是要动起来， 行动起来幸福就有了，聚焦了当下小幸福，未来的大幸福就有了。

      According to the practice of the mainstream behavioral school of psychology, if you are happy or unhappy, you should not think every day, but move and take action. Happiness will exist. If you focus on the current small happiness, there will be great happiness in the future.

      家庭的和睦，比任何教育都重要；家庭的学习氛围，就抵得上一个优秀的老师。

      Family harmony is more important than any education; Family learning atmosphere is equal to an excellent teacher.

      我最喜欢的一句话是：家庭教育是父母和孩子共同成长。虎年已至，新学期新气象，愿您与孩子一起生龙活虎地生活与成长！在接纳平凡中挑战不平凡。

      My favorite sentence is: family education is the common growth of parents and children. The year of the tiger has come, and the new semester has a new atmosphere. I wish you and your children live and grow together! Challenge the extraordinary in accepting the ordinary.

      愿您能成长为能够引领“五会三美”的理想样态家长。“五会”——会陪伴、会合作、会阅读、会锻炼、会激励。“三美”——心灵美、语言美、行为美。愿我们既能担得起荣耀的高光时刻，也能经得住“静待花开”的岁月考验。因为，你我应该始终坚信：孩子每天都在进步，也终将成长。

      May we not only be able to bear the glorious highlight moment, but also stand the test of "waiting for the flowers to bloom". Because, you and I should always firmly believe that children are making progress every day and will eventually grow up.